Philosophy of Love
I've actually been doing alot of research, on soulmates, twin flames and soul ties. It's super interesting how people think of their soulmate is here, but now if you look at it, they could be in a whole different universe, dimension… they could be in the fucking afterlife for all people know. But really soul mates and love are just beautiful and kind of mysterious. Do I think true love still exists here? That is a jar hard maybe or at least no one's proven to me it does. I've never really had it, I thought I did many times but I was wrong, really really wrong. However if you happen to find someone who you feel a special soul connection to, it should never be ignored. Please never ignore it. You will come across only maybe a handful of people who will ignite such a fire within you, sometimes a fire that can never be put out. This is a true pure connection, maybe even spiritual which is beautiful. Though in today's society, I've never seen true love, sadly all people do is cheat on each other, or lie constantly to their partner. Which disgust me. I absolutely hate people who are unfaithful to their partner, especially the ones who are proud about it. Lying too I hate it. Now I truly believe love exists because well, if you really look at it , It's the reason you and I are here, and the reason everyone else is pretty much. Love is the root of it all. Love can be an intense overwhelming feeling at times, especially when you really love said person. But really to me that's beautiful. Though at times it may not be beautiful it can really tear someone apart especially if they feel in love with the wrong person, or if this person they love isn't here. Now As far as marriage, it's definitely advised to marry your soulmate if you can. If not, due to them possibly not being here. it's a matter of who you can find that you can tolerate the best for the rest of your time on this Earth. Always marry someone who is good for you, there for you and you know your personalities get along well. Personality is the only thing we have for our entire lives most of the time, people do change or hide their true colors. But as far as looks go, looks fade and looks can change anything, any minute. Money goes away you can always lose all your money at any given moment. But personality stays forever. That's part of your soul, seasoned with the addition of how you have been treated in this world. Finding people you love is just a matter of finding people who mesh well with your personality
I think that as social beings, humans look for mutually beneficial forms of stimulation over singularly beneficial forms. For example, rather than simply thinking. Since love requires at least two partners, it fits the social requirement.
Beyond that, people benefit more from one or several long-standing partnerships than from many short-lived ones, because it creates a support system with familiar individuals who know your needs and can more easily help in times of crisis. But seeing as everybody's philosophy on this might be different there might not be a true meaning to this. There is always thay spark when you meet a new person and as humans we may want to find that again
There is a name for this it's called, dopamine's a hell of a drug.